Tuesday, 16 October 2012

Cryptic messages from the female tongue


If women said what they really meant the world would be a better place and everyone would get laid more often.



I have definitely reached a place in my life where I have no desire or want to play games anymore. This especially includes the “guess what I really mean” game women like to play. I just have neither time nor patience for this anymore. Instead I will just take advantage of the fact that she could have told me what she wanted but didn’t.

For the most part I tend to be fairly outspoken and honest. I hate it when people ask me a question but don’t want to hear the truth. Don’t ask me if you look fat in what you are wearing and expect me to lie about it. It’s just not fair. Besides do you really want to build a relationship on lies and distrust?

"DO I LOOK FAT?" There is no answer to this question that won't be interpreted "yes". "No" means yes. "Yes" means yes. "I don't know" means yes. "It doesn't matter" means yes. The slightest hint of a pause before speaking means yes. Most of us would rather take our degrees again than field this one, yet it may well come up several times a week. Your only real choice is to say no, clearly and immediately, leaving no possibility for any subtext, and making it sound like a widely acknowledged fact and not simply your opinion. However there is another approach to this. Consider the following:

When women ask “Do I look fat in this dress?” they are really asking if the man still finds them desirable. Would it not be easier on everyone to just ask that? Or to ask “Are you still attracted to me”? We all know this wouldn’t make it any easier as they are all loaded questions with hidden meanings. The best response I can think of to these types of questions is along the lines of: “I want to have sex with you. I want to have sex with you all the time. So whatever your body looks like must be working for me because I think you are hot.” Or if you feel like rolling the dice and you don’t really care about your relationship you can just responded with a simple “Yup” to the “Do I look fat?” question.

Instead of dropping all kinds of vague and subtle hints for what you want, just come out and ask for it. We will both be happier for it. You may get what you want; I won’t have to play a fucking guessing game, and we can both move on with our lives. If you don’t want to have sex then for the love of god just tell me so I can go and find some good porn then go to sleep myself. How am I supposed to know if you are playing one of your “hard to get” games?

I have learned to decipher some of this female code over the years. The translations below have been put together of the last 150 years by teams of distinguished scientists. It is not guaranteed to be accurate, but it is the best we have been able to do with the technology we have today.

For the sake of your genitals don’t mess these ones up…

“Is there someone else?”  No!
“Do you still fantasize about her?”  No!
“Are you tired of me?”  No!

“Do you still love me?”  Yes!
“Do you ever fantasise about me?”  Yes!
“Do you like my hair this way?”  Yes!

Here are some common phrases that have been translated for your convenience

"Yes" = No

"No" = No but sometimes Yes

"Maybe" = No

"I'm sorry" = you’ll be sorry

"We need" = I want

"It's your decision" = The correct decision should be obvious by now

"Do what you want" = You'll pay for this later

"We need to talk" = I need to complain

"Sure go ahead" = I don't want you to

"I'm not upset" = Of course I'm upset, you moron!

"You're so manly" = You need a shave and you sweat a lot

"Be romantic, turn out the lights" = I have flabby thighs

"This kitchen is so inconvenient" = I want a new house

"I want new curtains" = and carpeting, and furniture, and wallpaper, and a puppy

"I heard a noise" = I noticed you were almost asleep. Now that you are up I am thirsty.

"Do you love me?" = I'm going to ask for something expensive

"How much do you love me?" = I did something today you're going to hate

"I'll be ready in a minute" = Just going to wash and straighten my hair, try on 18 outfits, pick an outfit then try on 33 pairs of shoes, 6 handbags and 9 belts. You should just grab a beer and watch the game.

"You have to learn to communicate" = Just agree with me

"Are you listening to me!?" = Too late, you're dead

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